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Rethinking the Oxygen Mask Metaphor. Especially for Parents of Kids with Complex Needs.
I just got back from some plane travel and as always, heard the familiar line: “Put your own oxygen mask on first before helping others.” We hear this all the time in parenting and therapy spaces, especially for parents doing the harder-than-average parenting —the parenting of kids who have big needs. Needs that can be sudden, dangerous, medical, or life-threatening. This phrase has always felt a bit off to me. And yet, I’ve used it. I’ve said it to parents in the past (thoug
Dr. Meghan Clifford
Dec 4, 20256 min read


A Moment for You, the Adult, This Halloween
Halloween can be overwhelming for so many reasons. Infertility, parenting, your own childhood halloweens, fear, etc.
Let's take a few moments to reduce your overwhelm. So your own little selves and other kids can feel the magic that can be Halloween.
Dr. Meghan Clifford
Oct 31, 20253 min read


The Days After: The One Month Mark
When the Shock Starts to Fade The first days after a tragedy are often dominated by shock, adrenaline, and survival. For those of you...
Dr. Meghan Clifford
Oct 8, 20254 min read


Phone a Friend 1.0: Trauma Sensitive Strategies from an Occupational Therapist
Written by Dr. Sheryl Butler, MA, OTD, OTR/L , OT Connections Minnesota Hello Dear Readers, Today we have a real treat for you. Dr. Butler has written an incredible post from her OT brain on strategies that can be helpful in the days after trauma. These are real, practical things you can do to help yourself, your kid, or anyone else you care about. Here it is: Trauma healing occurs in layers. When children are traumatized, the most important thing we can do is create a safe
Dr. Meghan Clifford
Sep 30, 20252 min read
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